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Marriages were arranged for a woman by a responsible male, either a father or a brother. Husbands sometimes paid for the bride, but a dowery was more likely. A girl was betrothed after 5 and married at 15 usually to an older distant relative. A torchlight procession took the bride from her house to the house of her husband, where the marriage was consumated. Singing and dancing accompanied the consumation outside the bedroom door.
Homer in the Odyssey compares the feast of the wooers to a wedding feast, which must have been common in Ancient Greece. The wedding feast would have been a group of young men friends of the married couple's families. Homer further suggests that the feast is furnished by the bride's family, but that the groom brings wedding gifts which are displayed at the feast. Among the entertainments at such a feast would be a minstrel, and perhaps tumblers. A swine might be slaughtered to provide food for the feast.
Ancient Greek Wedding Bride and Groom
In this picture a bride and groom are presenting themselves at a wedding feast. The bride wears a red chiton and the groom is nude. If the groom was not nude he would also wear a red chiton. During the classical period feasts were served on low table to guests lying on high couches. The tripod represents the type of gift the groom would present to the bride's family.
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Question: what id marriage in greek society
Answer: The suitors assembled in the home of the prospective bride and each made a proposal of marriage. The father considered the proposals and choose the groom. The father might require a contest among the contenders to help him decide. In the case of Atalanta the young men had to beat the prospective bride in a footrace.
Homer mentions a wedding banquet, and gifts of wooing from the man to his bride. But later during the classical period a dowery seems more appropriate because Medea (in Euripedes' Medea) says "The most unhappy creature is a woman; Who must first buy a husband with her wealth."
At weddings they wore their finest clothes, but sometimes they went nude. The whole wedding party paraded around, sang, and danced. The women made offerings and sacrifices to Athena and Aphrodite.
Question: were ancient women arranged to get married? was there a certian way to dress?
Answer: The father or other responsible male arranged the marriage. They wore their finest clothes to the wedding.
Question: What age do women have to get married and why
Answer: Women were married at about 13. Their fathers would arrange the marriage at that age with a man who was about 30 so the women could receive a substantial education from her husband.
Question: Did women have any choice in who she married? It appears marriage was not an emotional arrangement. Yet Hector and Andromache (my two fav characters of Greek myth) seemed to really love each other. Were they just lucky?
Answer: Women in many societies have had to learn how to encourage suitors they favored, and discourage the ones they did not. So they influenced the choice. Sometimes they were unlucky and had no influence. Sometimes they were lucky and got a good husband in spite of the fact that the husband was chosen without her knowledge or consent. But it is difficult to enjoy life with a wife who is unhappy. Some husbands go to great pains to please their wives just for this reason.
Question: the marriage customs were very elaborate...but what are the exact details?...such as carrying a pomegrannate as a sign of fertility.
Answer: Some customs can be clarified by reviewing art. For example Hebe does not carry a pomegranate in the wedding of Hercules and Hebe: Click here but it is common to see a hood on the bride. The material in art represents the classical period while the epics refer to a period 800 years earlier. In the Odyssey (Book I) Homer states: "As for the wooers bid them scatter them each one to his own, and for thy mother, if her heart is moved to marriage, let her go back to the hall of that mighty man her father, and her kinsfolk will furnish a wedding feast, and array the gifts of wooing exceeding many, all that should go back with a daughter dearly beloved."
In Book IV of the Odyssey Homer states: "...renowned Menelaus. Him they found giving a feast in his house to many friends of his kin, a feast for the wedding of his noble son and daughter. His daughter he was sending to the son of Achilles, cleaver of the ranks of men, for in Troy he first had promised and covenanted to give her, and now the gods were bringing about their marriage. So now he was speeding her on her way with chariot and horses, to the famous city of the Myrmidons, among whom her lord bare rule. And for his son he was bringing to his home the daughter of Alector out of Sparta, for his well-beloved son, strong Megapenthes, {*} born of a slave woman, for the gods no more showed promise of seed to Helen, from the day that she bare a lovely child, Hermione, as fair as golden Aphrodite. So they were feasting through the great vaulted hall, the neighbours and the kinsmen of renowned Menelaus, making merry; and among them a divine minstrel was singing to the lyre, and as he began the song two tumblers in the company whirled through the midst of them.
In Book VI of the Odyssey Athene speaks to Nausicaa: "'Nausicaa, how hath thy mother so heedless a maiden to her daughter? Lo, thou hast shining raiment that lies by thee uncared for, and thy marriage day is near at hand, when thou thyself must needs go beautifully clad, and have garments to give to them who shall lead thee to the house of the bridegroom! And, behold, these are the things whence a good report goes abroad among men, wherein a father and lady mother take delight. But come, let us arise and go a-washing with the breaking of the day, and I will follow with thee to be thy mate in the toil, that without delay thou mayst get thee ready, since truly thou art not long to be a maiden. Lo, already they are wooing thee, the noblest youths of all the Phaeacians, among that people whence thou thyself dost draw thy lineage.
In (Book XVII) of the Odyssey Penelope says: "Whoso wish to woo a good lady and the daughter of a rich man, and vie one with another, themselves bring with them oxen of their own and goodly flocks, a banquet for the friends of the bride, and they give the lady splendid gifts,...)
Question: What did they do at Ancient Greece weddings?
Answer: Read above.
Question: Did young women get to choose their husband?
Answer: Not directly, but they knew how to encourage and discourage suitors.
Question: What was the fate of a woman if her husband preceeded her in death??
Answer: If her husband left no estate, then she returned to her parents family, possibly to marry again. If her husband left an estate then she became part of it. The estate would be offered to one of his relatives and if he accepts it, he gets the wife as part of the bargain. He would give up any wife he already had to take the estate.
Question: How was a widowed womens life in ancient greece
Answer: If she was poor she turned into a drudge to justify her existence. She would be lucky if she sould live with her children. If whe was rich she got a new husband, but not one of her chosing.
Question: what was the style of their wedding dress?
Answer: This was the same style as their street clothes, but much fancier. They were also often veiled and hooded.
Question: Does the site exhibit a bias or slant? If so, what is it?
Answer: This page is part of a larger site on the Role of Women in the Art of Ancient Greece. The site is more concerned with Minoan and Mycenaean influences than Classical accuracy. This allows changes to be documented. Visual arts are emphasized more than the literary arts.
Question: What authority or special knowledge does the author have?
Answer: I publish this material to be as truthful as possible for all to see. If anyone finds an error that can be documented, I am happy to make the necessary corrections.
Question: Hi! I am doing a Website Review for my Western Civilization class at school. I have the following questions for you if you don't mind answering them:1. When was the site wedding.html last updated?2. Does the site exhibit a bias, or a slant? If so, what is it?3. What training or studies have you done to enable you to create this site? I would really appreciate your help with these questions.Thanks again!
Answer: 1. last update Oct 23, 2000 2. This page is part of a site on the Role of Women in the Art of Ancient Greece. 3. I have a Master's degree in Computer-based Education. I wished to get some experience with a web site that was useful so I put out about 50 pages of information in 3 areas of interest: Art, Computers, Environment. Of these 50 pages only one has produced hits. As more people raise questions about the topic of Women in the Art of Ancient Greece I get drawn further into the subject. The wedding page was distilled out of the other material. (This material was posted Nove. 17, 2000)
Question: Who did Pericles marry?
Answer: Aspasia was the mistress of Pericles.
Question: How much land was given to the wife and husband after they were married?
Answer: Sometimes the father of the bride paid a dowery to the husband and sometimes the husband paid the father for the bride. The value of the dowery varied and the form it took varied as well. Land was not always involved.
Question: what types of food did they have at the greek weddings?
Answer: Festival food including sesame seeds and honey, bread in a basket, and acorn, various grains, quinces and other fruits.
Question: was their any gods of goddesses of marriage?
Answer: Hera was the goddess of marriage.
Question: Were the Greek women allowd to get married? If so, were there any certain expectations or reasons why they had to get married?
Answer: In ancient Greece marriages of women were arranged by the woman's father. A father did not need the daughter's permission or opinion as to whether she was ready. It seems as though a rapist might force a marriage but only if the father of the victim agreed to it.
Question: Do the nymphs have anything to do with why nymphomania is chracterized as a woman's disorder?
Answer: Yes, and no. The word nymph has a double meaning. A mortal bride is a nymph, and an imortal lesser goddess is a nymph. 'nymphomania' is a morbid an uncontrollable sexual desire in a woman and the word means a bride mania. 'nympholepsy' refers, on the other hand, to someone posessed by one of the goddess nymphs. The words are related because nymphs are supposed to be sexually promiscuous. Common belief states that once women experience sex, then they are insatiable. This would relate the bride to nymphomania.
Question: did the greeks exchange rings, or have any type of ritual such as that?
Answer: The woman had no possessions of her own so an exchange of rings seems unlikely. The husband provided what ever jewelry she wore. In the Minoan period women arranged their bangs according to their marriage status while there was a sacral knot that appears in images. No one knows how either of these were used.
Question: where can i find more pictures of ancient greek wedding?
Answer:
Question: What was the Status of Women in and outside marriage in Ancient Greece
Answer: In classical Greece the status of women is determined by the men in their lives: their husband, if married, or their father if not. In Minoan and Mycenaean society the status of women was determined by the property they belonged to, and the men they married took on that status.
Question: Can a man of ancient greece have more than 1 wife(like Alexander the Great's father)?
Answer: A man in classical Greece can have only one wife that produces his heir, but he can have relationships with many women as long as they are not another man's wife or daughter of his wife.
Question: An older distant relative? Typical age? How distant was the male relative? Had the girl any rights at all as to her marital fate? fate
Answer: Only men had rights in ancient Greece.
Question: What if a women did not love her husband would she still have to marry him?
Answer: In those days the fathers had the say as to who could marry. The reason the father had the say is that his maturity could provide better information on the long term success of the marriage. A smart father would insure that there was a good chance for love between the marriage partners because his future depended upon the success of the marriages of his children. Unfortunately not all fathers turned out to be smart. Some arranged marriages for social advancement, as a favor, or even for money. So some women ended up in unhappy marriages.
Question: Are there any quotes regarding wine and love and marriage from Ancient times?
Answer: Read Plato's Symposium.
Question: where did the weding take plsce? at her house or at her future husband?
Answer: The wedding was a procession from the bride's house to the husband's house. After she arrived at the husband's house the bride and husband were sequestered while they consumated their marriage. The wedding party continued to sing songs of encouragement outside their door.
Question: I have a couple questions regarding Wedding Ceremonies in Ancient Greece...i know this doesn't seem very important but i need as much info. as possible...We are doing a play in class on Ancient Greek Weddings and I (wedding coordinator) would PLEASE like to have these q's Answered 1- What would be an example of a song or type of music they would use during wedding ceremonies? 2- Would the bride dance with her husband after they were married? 3- Would the bride and groom kiss during this ceremony 4- Would the bride and groom walk down the aisle together? 5- Would there be a feast after the two people were initially married? 6- Would everyone sit at tables? If you have ANY info. on this PLEASE give it to me ASAP...thanks for listening
Answer: 1. Ancient Greek music was either played on the Lyre or reeded
flute. Resources follow:
2. No. The bride and the groom got together for sex.
3. No. As soon as they got together they would have sex.
4. No. They went into a bedroom to have sex.
5. There might be a wedding feast as part of the ceremony.
6. No. Tables might be rare. But the food would be served on tables.
Question: What food did they serve at ancient greek weddings and may i have the recipes?
Answer: Greek recipes"
Question: ve to do a research paper on greek weddings and i am not allowed to use the internet for my research
Answer: But you can use the internet to find where to research. For
example this article indicates a wedding in the Odyssey that you can reference.
Question: what color did ancient greeks wear on their wedding
Answer: Red.
Question: Can you get some better picture of the weddings ask someone to
draw onw for you and post it on your site with color and stuff.Because the
pics that u r showing are not colorful and to complicated thanks!!!!!!!!!!
Answer: If you want the situation simplified then you must specify carefully
what aspect of the wedding you want pictured.
Question: ancient greek married life
Answer: Often the Greek husband was married at 30 and the wife at 13.
The early years of the marriage involved a period during which the husband
schooled his wife. The pair probably lived with the husband's parents so
his mother may have done this. The pair spent their evening an night together
and slept together. They at least had their own room if they lived in the
house of his parents. Evenings were spent in a social meal with other members
of the family and perhaps a bard who provided news. In the morning the
husband left the house to work while the wife stayed with other women. She
may have had slaves to organize or she may have been a part of a larger
organization with the slaves organized by her mother-in-law. Some holidays
were spent together while others were separated by sex.
Question: What did the women in Ancient Greece where when they were getting married?
Answer: A red dress.
Question: do u have any pix with marriage thats not on a vase?pix of the people getting married or porn?
Answer:
Question: what do they wear in for the wedding
Answer: The bride was well covered in a red dress and veil but the groom
was sometimes naked, or he wore a similar dress but no veil.
Question: What happened if the women cheated on her husband?
Answer: Judging from the stories about Hera, this did not happen very often.
And it was only significant if she was caught. Women who were unsatisfactory
were sent back to their parents.
Question: what would happen to a young couple that had fallen in love with
one-another?
Answer: If their fathers approved, they would marry. If they did not
approve they could not marry. If they went ahead and had sex then the man
might be prosecuted for rape and expected to pay the family of the woman
compensation. They might then be married, but it is still possible that
the woman's father would pledge her to another.
Question: i need lady for merriage
Answer: There is no doubt that an ancient Greek girl would make a wonderful
wife, but they have all been dead for over 2000 years.
Question: I am doing a presentation on Ancient Greek Life, I have chosen
Marriage as my topic. Your information here is great, my question is" What
years represent "Ancient Greek" ? Our timeline is 3000BC to 300 AD - does your
information fall into those years, if so, what year(s)?
Answer: A lot changed in the time you mentioned so it is helpful to
subdivide the period.
Normally Ancient Greek refers to Greek speaking peoples and so is more
properly 1450-168 BCE since the Minoans did not speak Greek. Some would also
exclude the Hellenistic age because it had an international flavor so
1450-336 BCE is the most conservative meaning. Notice that the customs
were not constant throughout the period so it is often desirable to refer to the shorter periods.
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